I am glad to see your thoughts on "sense of accomplishment" and lack thereof, because I thought I had read about that when my SO was informally diagnosed ADHD by his therapist, but I couldn't remember where. I am glad I didn't imagine it. It's such a profound thing for me to grasp, finally -- neither SO nor I understood how big the gulf was between how I manage tasks and how he does. Or doesn't. I was just trying to explain it to his sister the other day, and she was clearly skeptical. 🫤